sorry, another girl thread, i know it feels like i'm posting too many. but this is a new one, and its not a worthless thread, i need some advice and help interpereting it.
theres this girl i've been seeing in the gym a lot. i've had classes with her, i know her fraternal twin brother somewhat. i've also seen her in temple, and around town. she is absolutely stunningly beautiful, has a perfect body and doesn't know it yet.
so since i've been seeing her in the gym every day, i wrote on her facebook wall. "hey whats up, i see you in the gym a lot, whats up?"
so we went back and forth on facebook, talking about school, and prom, and such. so today i saw her in the gym again, first time since we've talked on facebook. i was working out with my dad.
she was in there, every time i'd look at her, shed like go to look at me then look away, i couldn't like hold eye contact. she was acting really, really weird. i was gonna walk up to her and say hi, but she left before i had a chance to.
so everyone finished their workout, and it was just me and my dad. this girl i see right outside the weightroom, on her phone, everytime i look at her she looks down and goes where i can't see her. so then a couple minutes later, she comes in, and she wants to use the bench my dad is sitting on. so my dad gets up, then shes like how do you adjust it? so i'm like here, i help her, i smile, she smiles, she does her thing while keep lifting, of course flexing and dramatically grunting and all that, but obviously not too much, then she left in the middle of my set, before i had a chance to talk to her.
so......any thoughts? and yea, heres a pic.
oh yea, and she's a year and a half younger than me.
ugh i know, but like when i'm working out, i'm working out, you know?
Stop making excuses pussy!!! She wants you in her pants thats why shes acting like that. Go out of your way to see her! She probably does some cardio so next time you see her on a treadmill, bike , stair climber etc. Go talk to her. You don't have to have an in depth conversation Just a 30sec hey watsup etc. The purpose of you going over and talking to her is to let her know that you noticed she was there and that you made an effort to be noticed by her. It shows that your interested in her ( not neccesarily sexually even though ya are) Then she'll feel more comfortable the next time she see's you and it will be easier and easier to talk to her as time goes by.
stangman, good advice. i like the way that sounds.
thing is, i don't want to just **** her. shes got a really good head on her shoulders, i honestly wouldn't even care if she didn't put out. shes like a really different girl. oddly enough, i actually like her for who she is.
stangman, good advice. i like the way that sounds.
thing is, i don't want to just **** her. shes got a really good head on her shoulders, i honestly wouldn't even care if she didn't put out. shes like a really different girl. oddly enough, i actually like her for who she is.
But you don't know her I know what you mean though
wow...i wish i had the time to make threads everytime i glance at a hot chick on campus and she glances back.... but yeah, seriously, just talk to her, there is no harm in having a 2 minute comversation. she may be just as interested in you as you are her, and just as scared to talk to you as you are her. hell, she might even be making "guy problems" posts somewhere on a cosmo forum or soemthing. but stiil, one of you has to talk to the other or nothing is ever going to happen. so just walk over to her and say hi, and throw out a little small talk, and if she seems like she is into you, then ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. all there is to it.
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Let too many more chances pass by and she's going to (Even if subconsciously) label you as a wussbag who has to hide behind the computer to talk to women, and any chance you might have had will be gone.
And are you f'ing kidding me? "When I'm working out, I'm working out..." ??? She's a helluva cute girl, I think she'd deserve a half assed workout.
Talk to her a LITTLE bit, just enough to let her know you can. While talking to her in PERSON ask her out for drinks some afternoon, then split. Either get back to your workout, or leave the gym if you can't bring yourself to give her some space.
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Maybe she was calling her friend and asking her friend what she should do and how to meet you. You need to try and talk to her and get to know her. You don't have anything to loose and life is to short. If she dont act interested once you have tried to talk with her, then just walk away and tell her it was nice chatting with her. Then, let her make then next move, and it she dont, you know it wont work out. Good Luck!
if your white and belong to a cult like church that you refer to as temple than thas my theory, if your brown then carry on......
Holy christ, dude, Jews go to temple. It isn't that rare.
EDIT: And living in Florida with a name like Jason Adamsky, he is DEFINATELY a Jew.
And to the OP... grow a set man. WTF? How hard is it just to chat a girl up?
Too tired to sound nice. Girls are not a mystery. Go talk to her, and if she likes you, you are in. If she doesn't, then when you say "Wanna meet up for a drink sometime?" she will just say she can't. Who cares?
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another girl thread, yes. different, yes. need some ad... - 
I know what you mean though
