well, its tough to explain until you have taken some psychology, but at dinner, last night, that I had with her, and a friend of hers, the dynamic between the two of them, and her body language, more flirtatious with her friend, than with me, considering I "flirt" quite a bit, and I was hinting quite a bit, it was obvious by the way she acted towards her friend that she wasn't into guys, which was confirmed when I asked her later
i'm just gonna throw this out there but it has been my experience that there is no such thing as a truly lesbian woman....now before some of you start in with "oh yeah bs bs bs"....i said its been my experience...i have dated plenty of so-called gay women and slept with them (i guess you can say i'm a p*ssy whisperer)...its been my experience that they act gay and get with other women cause of the way guys treat them...and if you think about it....the simple fact is the even in a lesbian sexual experience there will inevitably always be a dildo subbing for your johnson...this may be a difficult statement for some kids to understand but :
every girl is in some way bi-sexual, no girl is truly lesbian
thats true in my case...so the harsh reality is if your girl tells you that shes lesbian, its something you did wrong
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F.E.A.R ..... ITS ALL WHAT YOU DO WITH IT:
forget everything and run or face everything and recover "fight everything...conform to nothing"
Or possibly something other guy did to her and shes turning that way? Dont give up yet man ;)
Thats why I said I didn't figure out if it was a practical reason that she was gay (as in some guy screwed her up) or if it was that she really was gay. There's a big difference between the two, and with the first one there is still hope, whereas with the second one, I'm screwed, and not in the good way
by the way when i said if your girl tells you that shes lesbian, its something you did wrong , i wasnt referring to the op...i was speaking in general...i wasnt there to say what he did wrong so its nothin personal to him
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F.E.A.R ..... ITS ALL WHAT YOU DO WITH IT:
forget everything and run or face everything and recover "fight everything...conform to nothing"
very true, the only question is what to pray for, or should I just talk to him? I'm going up to the mountain tomorrow for that very reason, I think that 9,000ft can get me at least a little closer, and a little closer to quiet enough. I guess I should just hope being a skeptic (philisophically) doesn't annoy him enough to not give me at least a little bit of guidance
John the Baptist questioned whether or not Jesus was the Messiah. Jesus told him, "You see the miracles, people are being healed, death is being castout, yeah, I'm Him."
Talk to God.
Philippians 4:4-7 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
What would you guys do if someone you really had feelings for told you they were a lesbian? I mean, its pretty big, not something to just "get over", I don't even think doctor phil would say to just get over it. anyway, to drink, or not to drink, that is the question, whether tis nobler in the heart.....
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