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ORIGINAL: MrAWatts
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what happens if the girl wants to go the a plan but the guy doesn't? who wins?
Unfortunately, if a girl decides to, then I think the guy is ****ed. BUT, it's not fair to the guy. Because that is just as much his kid as it is hers. When you have sex, even with protection, you know there's a risk of getting pregnant. When it does happen, you should face the consequences of your actions. You knew the possible outcome. I think it is terrible that some guys get their babies killed because some girl doesn't have the balls to face the consequences of a choice she made.
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your first sentence sums it all up.
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You said you wore one everytime right? I know they aren't 100% but maybe she wants to leave b/c the kid isn't yours.
i don't believe in abortion either.
That's the first thing I thought too. Unless she gave you other reasons for wanting to leave, you should consider it a possiblity. Did she decide to leave kind of out of the blue, or did it build up to this over time? Because if she got pregnant with someone else, of course she doesn't want to tell you that. Imagine the shame. Esp if she cares about you. The easiest thing for her is to take the pussy way out, end the relationship, and go have it killed off. Which is terrible. But then you would never know about her cheating if she pulled it off.
what happens if the girl wants to go the a plan but the guy doesn't? who wins?
Unfortunately, if a girl decides to, then I think the guy is ****ed. BUT, it's not fair to the guy. Because that is just as much his kid as it is hers. When you have sex, even with protection, you know there's a risk of getting pregnant. When it does happen, you should face the consequences of your actions. You knew the possible outcome. I think it is terrible that some guys get their babies killed because some girl doesn't have the balls to face the consequences of a choice she made.
(i just had to)
your first sentence sums it all up.
I like how you underlined that even though it's obvious that it's a figure of speech. Ok, let's say it this way. If some girl doesn't have what it takes. If she has no conscience. If she has a complete disregard for human life, and the way the guy feels about his kid. If she isn't brave enough to own up to her mistakes.
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ORIGINAL: MrAWatts
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ORIGINAL: 99GTvert
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ORIGINAL: MrAWatts
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ORIGINAL: 99GTvert
what happens if the girl wants to go the a plan but the guy doesn't? who wins?
Unfortunately, if a girl decides to, then I think the guy is ****ed. BUT, it's not fair to the guy. Because that is just as much his kid as it is hers. When you have sex, even with protection, you know there's a risk of getting pregnant. When it does happen, you should face the consequences of your actions. You knew the possible outcome. I think it is terrible that some guys get their babies killed because some girl doesn't have the balls to face the consequences of a choice she made.
(i just had to)
your first sentence sums it all up.
I like how you underlined that even though it's obvious that it's a figure of speech. Ok, let's say it this way. If some girl doesn't have what it takes. If she has no conscience. If she has a complete disregard for human life, and the way the guy feels about his kid. If she isn't brave enough to own up to her mistakes.
i like how you completely missed what i said in the parenthesis. let the girls say that they have/don't have the balls to do ___________. next time just substitute 'balls' with 'courage'.
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ORIGINAL: MustangMan628
V-6 is for real drivers. Go buy a Jetta if you want gas mileage and a chicks car. Buy a V-8 Mustang if you have no driving ability and need the extra horsepower to compensate and feel like you''''''''re fast.
what happens if the girl wants to go the a plan but the guy doesn't? who wins?
Unfortunately, if a girl decides to, then I think the guy is ****ed. BUT, it's not fair to the guy. Because that is just as much his kid as it is hers. When you have sex, even with protection, you know there's a risk of getting pregnant. When it does happen, you should face the consequences of your actions. You knew the possible outcome. I think it is terrible that some guys get their babies killed because some girl doesn't have the balls to face the consequences of a choice she made.
(i just had to)
your first sentence sums it all up.
I like how you underlined that even though it's obvious that it's a figure of speech. Ok, let's say it this way. If some girl doesn't have what it takes. If she has no conscience. If she has a complete disregard for human life, and the way the guy feels about his kid. If she isn't brave enough to own up to her mistakes.
i like how you completely missed what i said in the parenthesis. let the girls say that they have/don't have the balls to do ___________. next time just substitute 'balls' with 'courage'.
The point is, that you knew exactly what I meant, and you only added that to be a chodemaster.
It dosnt sound like OP is crazy about having a kid. The girl obviously either. And one option to consider is passing off the kid on to someone else, hopefully (there is a chance it wont get adopted).
Its a funny thing about people. There's a HUGE tendancy to make decisions based of "feelings" and "beliefs" instead of logically what is better for themselves and/or society (about these kinds of issues).
No one is jumping up and down about having this kid, so it essentially would be a burden, regaurdless if you would rather take'em in than be aborted.
i'm thinkin she wanted to leave cause she got knocked up by the other guy....maybe her original plan was to leave rather than hurt you...but she loves you so shes looking for a way to stay with you and if you actually are willing to believe this kid is yours maybe she figures she'll run with that....dont forget bro....she was walking out the door before this happened
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Just let her kill the thing.
You should be happy.
I'd be stoked if I got some chick pregnant and she wanted an abortion. Normally I think it'd be the other way around. Chick wants to have the baby, and the guy wants her to get an abortion.
Next thing you know you're explaining to the cops how she accidentally tripped and fell down the stairs three times. Who needs that headache.
thats fuking sig material.
funny thing is i tell my girl all the time if she gets pregnant she knows where to meet me. my mom asked where one time and she responded for me. i couldnt help but laugh
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no, i know the kid is mine. she left, we were having some problems but it wasnt her seeing other people, trust me i know. And i WOULD rather step up to the plate and raise this child than have her just kill my kid.
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oh yeah, and 28 lbs of boost is just f*cking insane - theres your problem
no, i know the kid is mine. she left, we were having some problems but it wasnt her seeing other people, trust me i know. And i WOULD rather step up to the plate and raise this child than have her just kill my kid.
so you wrapped it everysingle time in those 2 weeks and somehow you got her preg. are you not telling us something like a condom broke? theres gotta be more to this story or you got super sperm. i doubt shed just leave like that without an outside influence. same thing happened to me, she was seeing other guys. i not trying to stir the pot but girls are the anti-christ.
no, i know the kid is mine. she left, we were having some problems but it wasnt her seeing other people, trust me i know. And i WOULD rather step up to the plate and raise this child than have her just kill my kid.
listen, i'm not being a dick but bro there is NO man alive who can say that...NOONE, not even fonzi himself, can say that his girl wouldnt cheat on him....ANY GIRL CAN BE HAD by the right set of words under the right set of circumstances...i get my share of p*ssy but i wouldnt pretend i'm the man because of it...naw...think of a girl as a combination lock, under the right conditions...any man can crack that lock...look at it this way...if you see a girl that you absolutely want...do you think you would fail to get her if you gave it your all...would you care if she was married? i think theres a hell of a lot more going on here than she would have you believe...just be flattered that for some reason shes going through all this to keep you in her life somehow
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forget everything and run or face everything and recover "fight everything...conform to nothing"
It dosnt sound like OP is crazy about having a kid. The girl obviously either. And one option to consider is passing off the kid on to someone else, hopefully (there is a chance it wont get adopted).
Its a funny thing about people. There's a HUGE tendancy to make decisions based of "feelings" and "beliefs" instead of logically what is better for themselves and/or society (about these kinds of issues).
No one is jumping up and down about having this kid, so it essentially would be a burden, regaurdless if you would rather take'em in than be aborted.
There are families on waiting lists wanting to adopt a newborn baby. I'm sure if she had the child he/she would go to a good home. My brother was born in 1972 and was adopted. Our parents had to wait another 4 years to get me. Lucky for us our "biological" mothers had the courage to give birth to us and not throw us away. I also have 2 cousins that are adopted and my aunt and uncle had to wait several years.
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Little blob of cells =/= kid.
I could see maybe 4 or 5 months down the road, but its been only a couple weeks, come on, its not a kid yet and you know it.
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lol it woulda beeen a perfect story. "Hey, remember when i was leaving? like 3 years ago? well i was kinda sorta pregnant" "what?? What happened to the baby??" "Well by the time i worked up the courage to tell you, it was being sucked into a biological waste container."
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no offense, but I think your getting so defensive about "killing" the kid because you think it will keep her ass at home with you. Just my opinion though. GOOD LUCK!
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"Hey, remember when i was leaving? like 3 years ago? well i was kinda sorta pregnant" "what?? What happened to the baby??" "Well by the time i worked up the courage to tell you, it was being sucked into a biological waste container." 
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