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weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 5:43:57 PM
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AmericanMuscle4.6GT
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I'm sorry to post again about this, another girl thread, I know, but i think this is a valid thread, and i really need some insight to help sort it out; so just bear with me.
alright so i sent her a facebook message a week ago, doesn't matter what it was, she didn't respond, or didn't read it.
so i did a really dumb thing today; i called her, and i got pretty much exactly what i thought i was going to get. bunch of small talk first, then i asked her if she was doing anything tonight.
she faltered quite a bit and kinda said nah, and then said a bunch of things, and then was like oh i'm doing some studying....................and then hurried up in adding "pretty much all weekend." CLASSIC avoidance. it was what i expected.
but then, she did a complete and utter 180 on me. as we kept talking, she kept asking like am i moving back home over the summer, where do i live, and just really un-subtly pointed it in the direction of hanging out this summer. she also asked me where i'm going to be living next year; how close to school it is. she also said a bunch of stuff along the lines of we still need to hang out, a whole bunch of times.
ironically, the thing is, she sounded like the desperate neurotic we need to hang out attitude that i've been trying to avoid myself. it really felt good to be on the other end of it.
to be honest, this is pretty much the worst thing that could be happening as far as closure goes; this has only re-ignited the confusion and sent me into just the worst kind of confusion.
i just don't know what to think.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 5:47:45 PM
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crash94
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And all the space between paragraphs is for?
Sounds like she's trying to put you off, get you thinking about something else down the road instead of right now.
Move along to the next vagine... 
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 5:48:45 PM
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Get yourself an older woman. They don't eff with your head (as much, anyway). Life is too short to deal with a bunch of bullsh!t.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 5:57:23 PM
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whatever happened to the car show thing tha you were going to maybe take her too?
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 6:17:11 PM
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Goddamn dude, she does NOT want to hang out with you. She finds it funny that she is able to continue to string you along like this. Hell, she is probably going right over and talking to her friends about how she is able to keep stringing you right along easy as pie, like a little lost puppy.
Forget her.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 7:22:22 PM
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the space between paragraphs is to make it easier to read.
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This is why you dont get laid.... You put too much time into one girl
Its like a buffet at our age.... Just find the nearest hott girl and DO WORK (Rob n big )
no its really not a buffet. i really don't have many chances, rarely at all, this is the first thing like this that's come along, in, well, ever. the first girl in a while that would talk to me, i guess, i'm putting in a decent amount of effort. after this, though, i'm not really gonna try any more.
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whatever happened to the car show thing tha you were going to maybe take her too?
uh, that was just an idea i had to hang out with her; obviously it didn't work out.
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Goddamn dude, she does NOT want to hang out with you. She finds it funny that she is able to continue to string you along like this. Hell, she is probably going right over and talking to her friends about how she is able to keep stringing you right along easy as pie, like a little lost puppy.
Forget her.
you know, that's definetly a possibly, maybe i'm just too naive to accept that, maybe she just didn't seem like enough of a bitch to do that to me. but it would make perfect sense.
this is pretty much my last chance with a girl for a long time, so i kinda want it to work out.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 7:33:23 PM
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ORIGINAL: AmericanMuscle4.6GT
the space between paragraphs is to make it easier to read.
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This is why you dont get laid.... You put too much time into one girl
Its like a buffet at our age.... Just find the nearest hott girl and DO WORK (Rob n big )
no its really not a buffet. i really don't have many chances, rarely at all, this is the first thing like this that's come along, in, well, ever. the first girl in a while that would talk to me, i guess, i'm putting in a decent amount of effort. after this, though, i'm not really gonna try any more.
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whatever happened to the car show thing tha you were going to maybe take her too?
uh, that was just an idea i had to hang out with her; obviously it didn't work out.
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Goddamn dude, she does NOT want to hang out with you. She finds it funny that she is able to continue to string you along like this. Hell, she is probably going right over and talking to her friends about how she is able to keep stringing you right along easy as pie, like a little lost puppy.
Forget her.
you know, that's definetly a possibly, maybe i'm just too naive to accept that, maybe she just didn't seem like enough of a bitch to do that to me. but it would make perfect sense.
this is pretty much my last chance with a girl for a long time, so i kinda want it to work out.
That right there is exactly WHY this will be your only chance, even though I think you don't even have a chance here.
The only thing holding you back is YOU.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 7:34:18 PM
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That sucks dude. You have to get out of this rut, though. This chick isn't into you so just forget it. Maybe even delete her as a facebook friend. Get a book or something on talking to chicks with confidence. It's easy as can be and you've probably noticed way dumber guys doing way better than you at this so it's not like it's rocket science. You just have to learn what's what.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 7:43:00 PM
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That right there is exactly WHY this will be your only chance, even though I think you don't even have a chance here.
The only thing holding you back is YOU.
no, its not that, its not that at all. its just circumstances don't really favor me; combined with me not being the best looking guy and just not being able to talk to girls, not that many girls take me seriously enough to give me the time of day. so yea, thats why i think this is my only chance. this summer, i'm gonna have less chances than i do even now, and after that, who knows.
and honestly, how long do i have to wait? a month? 6 months? 6 years?
things just seem to be getting harder and harder, you know? with each failure it just gets harder and harder, and i just lose motivation after a while.
the problem is, you can be doing everything right, and you can still wait 6 months-a year and have nothing happen. theres just no guaruntee that anything will happen.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 7:44:00 PM
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quote:
ORIGINAL: AmericanMuscle4.6GT
the space between paragraphs is to make it easier to read.
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This is why you dont get laid.... You put too much time into one girl
Its like a buffet at our age.... Just find the nearest hott girl and DO WORK (Rob n big )
no its really not a buffet. i really don't have many chances, rarely at all, this is the first thing like this that's come along, in, well, ever. the first girl in a while that would talk to me, i guess, i'm putting in a decent amount of effort. after this, though, i'm not really gonna try any more.
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whatever happened to the car show thing tha you were going to maybe take her too?
uh, that was just an idea i had to hang out with her; obviously it didn't work out.
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Goddamn dude, she does NOT want to hang out with you. She finds it funny that she is able to continue to string you along like this. Hell, she is probably going right over and talking to her friends about how she is able to keep stringing you right along easy as pie, like a little lost puppy.
Forget her.
you know, that's definetly a possibly, maybe i'm just too naive to accept that, maybe she just didn't seem like enough of a bitch to do that to me. but it would make perfect sense.
this is pretty much my last chance with a girl for a long time, so i kinda want it to work out.
Wow, what is your deal?!?! Let it go and move on. I was just like you at 19-20, way to hung up on s***. At your age it should be like shooting fish in a barrel, even if you dont think your that good looking.
If you stay continue on with this mind set you will remain a no p**** gettin' motherf@cker. One of my best friends said this to me and I was like whoa, they are totally right.
You will look back at this time in your life and kick yourself in the ass for not letting this go and taking a swing at some other tail.
Remember the worse thing any of them can say is No.
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< Message edited by frd06GT -- 4/25/2008 7:45:19 PM >
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 7:47:03 PM
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THIS THREAD WILL BE 10 PAGES!!!
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comeon, facebook? PICS OR GTFO
eh just makes it easyur to reed mayng. i don't know why, but you just come off as a pussy. 
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 7:56:59 PM
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Dude... 
Stop bothering with her. Dont say that this is your last chance or whatever, there are plenty of girls around. Youre not dying of old age, youre just being a pussy. Get out there and start talkin to other girls. If this one for whatever reason contacts you, dont bother with her, tell her youre meeting a friend for lunch or whatever, and casually refer to the friend as "her". It will get this bitch thinkin.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 8:00:23 PM
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Wow, what is your deal?!?! Let it go and move on. I was just like you at 19-20, way to hung up on s***. At your age it should be like shooting fish in a barrel, even if you dont think your that good looking.
If you stay continue on with this mind set you will remain a no p**** gettin' motherf@cker. One of my best friends said this to me and I was like whoa, they are totally right.
You will look back at this time in your life and kick yourself in the ass for not letting this go and taking a swing at some other tail.
Remember the worse thing any of them can say is No.
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i rarely get a response from girls that they like me, actually this is pretty much the first time. but then when i think a girl likes me, it usually turns out that shes just being nice, and she acts like that towards everyone.
honestly, i'm either not mature enough, or i just don't know enough, i'm not ready to keep doing this.
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RE: weird thing this girl is doing, part 2. - 4/25/2008 8:03:43 PM
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I'll say what I said in your last thread....forget her! If she is able to come up with an excuse every time you bring up a date to hang out she is not worth trying. Like they said, she is probably laughing to herself everytime she does it to you, unless she is just too dumb to even realize she is doing it. I've been in a similar situation and it sucks to let it go because you held up so much hope that it would work out. Good luck though with others in the future, because I'm not afraid to admit I suck at it too lol. You'll find the right girl eventually.
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