I'm sorry to post again about this, another girl thread, I know, but i think this is a valid thread, and i really need some insight to help sort it out; so just bear with me.
alright so i sent her a facebook message a week ago, doesn't matter what it was, she didn't respond, or didn't read it.
so i did a really dumb thing today; i called her, and i got pretty much exactly what i thought i was going to get. bunch of small talk first, then i asked her if she was doing anything tonight.
she faltered quite a bit and kinda said nah, and then said a bunch of things, and then was like oh i'm doing some studying....................and then hurried up in adding "pretty much all weekend." CLASSIC avoidance. it was what i expected.
but then, she did a complete and utter 180 on me. as we kept talking, she kept asking like am i moving back home over the summer, where do i live, and just really un-subtly pointed it in the direction of hanging out this summer. she also asked me where i'm going to be living next year; how close to school it is. she also said a bunch of stuff along the lines of we still need to hang out, a whole bunch of times.
ironically, the thing is, she sounded like the desperate neurotic we need to hang out attitude that i've been trying to avoid myself. it really felt good to be on the other end of it.
to be honest, this is pretty much the worst thing that could be happening as far as closure goes; this has only re-ignited the confusion and sent me into just the worst kind of confusion.
Goddamn dude, she does NOT want to hang out with you. She finds it funny that she is able to continue to string you along like this. Hell, she is probably going right over and talking to her friends about how she is able to keep stringing you right along easy as pie, like a little lost puppy.
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This is why you dont get laid.... You put too much time into one girl
Its like a buffet at our age.... Just find the nearest hott girl and DO WORK (Rob n big )
no its really not a buffet. i really don't have many chances, rarely at all, this is the first thing like this that's come along, in, well, ever. the first girl in a while that would talk to me, i guess, i'm putting in a decent amount of effort. after this, though, i'm not really gonna try any more.
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whatever happened to the car show thing tha you were going to maybe take her too?
uh, that was just an idea i had to hang out with her; obviously it didn't work out.
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Goddamn dude, she does NOT want to hang out with you. She finds it funny that she is able to continue to string you along like this. Hell, she is probably going right over and talking to her friends about how she is able to keep stringing you right along easy as pie, like a little lost puppy.
Forget her.
you know, that's definetly a possibly, maybe i'm just too naive to accept that, maybe she just didn't seem like enough of a bitch to do that to me. but it would make perfect sense.
this is pretty much my last chance with a girl for a long time, so i kinda want it to work out.
weird thing this girl is doing, part 2.
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