So I know alot about this guy. We've been friends for a year now and nothing really that we cant figure out....
Untill now ;P

So he has this girl he's looking at (mind they're only 18). She is a nice good looking girl but here's the problem...
He needs to find some way to ask her out. They've been haning out for a few months now and he likes her and he thinks she likes him but he wants to take her to do something that she will like to ask her out.

Here are the factors.
He likes her but doesn't hang out with anyone else in her crowd.
He drinks. She doesnt.
They hang out about 3x a week for a few hours but every few weeks you see her with her ex bf talking...

He feels like he needs to make a move before they get close again (her ex), but he doesnt want to make it a hit or miss.

Where should he go? What should he do? How should he ask the question if she still likes her ex and if they're even going out?

Thanks guys. Ive never thought about a freind all weekend but damn, this is like a mind ****er. It's the WORST possible set up ever!

Tell him to go for it. Tell him to grow some balls and just say hey lets grab some dinner. He'll be pissed when he doesnt and regret probably for a long time. You only life one life and it's too short to hesitate and NOT do something you want to.


Also, pics of girl?

Yeah Ill look for some pics. But the thing is he DOESNT want to make it a hit or miss. Dinner,imo, implies that he wants to ask her out.

soo, next time their hanging out, just spontaniously say hey, lets go do ---- (insert activity of choice here) and perhaps after that, or during, would be a good time.

"oh hai, joo wantz be my gf?"

"oya. we b happee"


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ORIGINAL: flyingfool

soo, next time their hanging out, just spontaniously say hey, lets go do ---- (insert activity of choice here) and perhaps after that, or during, would be a good time.
****in' A that was my idea!

GTFO girl thread NOOB

wow my friend is in the exact same situation. he's gonna just wait till the girl says something.

he hangs out with her 3 times a week...in some places thats called going out already....what are they doin while theyre hangin? nothin he can do about the ex....in fact...theres nothin anyone can ever do about a girl bangin another dude...just be the best guy you can be and if she stays with ya she stays with ya...if she doesnt she doesnt...but guy, if you hang out with a girl 3 times a week for a few hours you are already goin out with her....DEPENDING...cause if hes been hangin with her for 3 times a week for a few hours and never even tasted her tongue then hes firmly in the friend zone and hes never gettin any of her yummy stuff

sounds like he's in the friend zone to me.


tell him to like make a move or something, or steer things in a more relationship-y direction.


btw, your sig quote is absoluetly awesome (nghtrnnr)

First of all if you don't have the balls to admit that you are talking about yourself you will never have the ball to ask her out. You freaking puss.