Team MF Member #302 Posts: 8569
Joined: 5/16/2006 From: earleville md Status: online
i hear ya man (op), i did the whole date co-workers thing but that well has run dry, i work at a resteraunt at night, and some hot chicks tend to come in there, if the opportunity is there ill give one or two my number, its not like i have time to sit and talk to them, or make any kind of conv. and everyonce in a while ill go bus a table that a chick i noticed earlier was sitting and(and eye ****ed a few times, lol) and see a number on a napkin, thats always nice lol. but yea man, graduated highschool, stoped goin to college, and thers no "hang out" places around, so i hear ya dude
Team MF Member #005 Posts: 475
Joined: 9/26/2006 Status: offline
Well i'm glad i'm not the only one who "has troubles" with FINDING girls. You people live in Cali are lucky so I don't want to here the oh it's so easy. Yea because we have 70 degree weather in the winter and can go to beaches in WASHINGTON STATE right? It's full of rain and clouds here.
Anyway, no luck with any girls tonight. Doesn't help that my best friend is a pussy towards girls and doesn't want to do anything or go anywhere. But that chick i met on sunday is still on my ****ing mind. We hung out, and all that then she says I don't want to lead you on and ****. Because she "doesn't" date because she's affraid of getting abused again like by her ex b/f whose now in jail.
I txted her and said i'm sorry for basically destroying her self asteem 2 nights ago. She said some bull **** back, and well now she won't talk to me.
Oh well, my town SUCKS, no decent girls that I have met recently. Plus this weather doesn't help girls wanting to go outside and jog on the trails.
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Yea, I'm not a people person in general. All my friends I don't talk to except for 1 and he lives about 6 hours away...nobody really to hang out w/...I'm ****ed when it comes to meeting new people...I don't talk to people I don't really know, I'm shy...I'm ****ing lame....but oh well. Girls @ the mall aint really my type anyways...girls @ bars really arent my type...the only girls I see on the golf course are in HS still...if I wasnt 21 I probably would say something to them, or go play w/ them one day...but that age thing bothers me...its just weird IMO. Don't know why maybe I should just stfu and stop thinking so damn much.
wtf is wrong with you peeps. Chicks are EVERYWHERE
You don't need to make the concious decision to go somewhere to look for girls. Whenever you go to the supermarket or something and you happen to see something that catches your eye walk over near her and start looking for a product on the shelves (this way it looks like you actually need to be there) and just strike up a random conversation.
You shouldn't have to go out of your way, just do it along the way
EXACTLY!!!
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ORIGINAL: The stang II
Some very good tips. I'm heading over to big 5 soon and am gettin a bb gun, then going to other places. where I want stuff and see if I can work some magic. Keep them coming I need all the help I can get.
Tip #1: Don't buy a friggin BB gun. You are 18, why in the Hell do you need a BB gun? You may as well be walking around the store with a toy light saber.
For the rest of you, here are three words that changed my dating life after my divorce, when I was lost and completelyout of practice with girls. DOUBLE YOUR DATING. Google it. The man is a freaking genius, take everything he says to heart. Learn it. Practice it.
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Team MF Member #066 Posts: 1301
Joined: 6/19/2006 From: Buffalo, NY Status: offline
I can tell ya this, youre not gonna meet any sittin on the computer.
Hell there were some pretty good suggestions here so far, stores arent bad, malls are usually good but bring a friend along or something. Start your conversations off with something like "my friend and i were having a discussion about something, and we could use a girl's input..."
Also i know it sounds weird, but girls these days are getting crazier, like, bad crazy. Before you start talkin to a girl, take a quick glance and check for a ring, any kind, engagement, wedding band, promise ring, etc. I know 5 girls i used to go to high school with that are engaged already. ages 18-21. ****in insane. One of em is engaged to a 28 year old world of warcraft dork. If you see a ring tho dont give up right away, say something witty like "so does this ring mean anything or do you just wear it to ward off idiots?"
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Joined: 6/19/2006 From: Buffalo, NY Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: BleedinBlue
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ORIGINAL: kngdaka
wtf is wrong with you peeps. Chicks are EVERYWHERE
You don't need to make the concious decision to go somewhere to look for girls. Whenever you go to the supermarket or something and you happen to see something that catches your eye walk over near her and start looking for a product on the shelves (this way it looks like you actually need to be there) and just strike up a random conversation.
You shouldn't have to go out of your way, just do it along the way
EXACTLY!!!
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ORIGINAL: The stang II
Some very good tips. I'm heading over to big 5 soon and am gettin a bb gun, then going to other places. where I want stuff and see if I can work some magic. Keep them coming I need all the help I can get.
Tip #1: Don't buy a friggin BB gun. You are 18, why in the Hell do you need a BB gun? You may as well be walking around the store with a toy light saber.
For the rest of you, here are three words that changed my dating life after my divorce, when I was lost and completelyout of practice with girls. DOUBLE YOUR DATING. Google it. The man is a freaking genius, take everything he says to heart. Learn it. Practice it.
Listen to bleedin too, mans a genius.
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this is my main group but there are thousands of groups that need your help. I'm fairly certain that no matter where you live there's a place that needs to be cleaned up or saved from developers, polluters, etc. Whatever you are concerned about, there's an organization trying to help.
And there are usually the kinds of girls you want to meet. Ones who are concerned about making a difference. Not ones who care about how cool you are and how big your rims are, but ones who will spend all day trying to clean up a stream, save a whale, etc. They might be more likely to be concerned about YOU too!
If you think it's about tree hugging, you couldn't be more wrong. It's about spending the day doing something that will change the world. You can't say the same about beating a ricer, waxing the car, or getting those new rims!
My advice is not to actually go looking for girls cause when your actually looking your trying to dam hard. Girls notice that to and its a turn off to most, well the ones that are worth getting with atleast , ones who like it when lame guys hit on them non stop are douche bags and you dont want to waste your time on them anyway , unless your just looking to bust a nut.
club chicks blow to or can be good if u just want to bust a nut, but if you want to date a club hooker be prepared for nights when she dont call you and ends up in some other dudes bed and wonders why her ass is streched and theres 8 passesed out dudes in the house and a box of costco size condoms empty laying on the bed beside her when she wakes up. can you say chooo choo train.
I met my gf on myspace but a friend of mine was friends with her and gave me the scoop before I actually chilled with her. Didnt plan on dating her more just was looking for a hot chick to try to get with when I felt like it, but just ended up been my gf and almost 2 yrs now. she dont drink, she dont club, dont smoke, dont do **** but work and go to school to be a doctor and cater to my ass. Im actuall yhelping he rpay for med school ( It's gona pay me back tenfold when shes done, Its like investing,lol)
best advice I can give you is if you find a good one keep her cause bitches are hard to find these days, well ones that are good to date atleast.
ok here how i did it this last week. a guy i work with told me to check out this new bar in town (small town) and to go check out the bar tender as she was cute. i tried to get him to go out with me but our days off clash. i tried to get another buddy and his girl to go but they bitched out so i said **** it and went by my self. i went with the mind set that if she was cute the worst that would happen was i ask her out and she ses no. well i walk in and look around i see this girl and she is drop dead hot so i went up to the bar and say "this is a nice place this is the first time i have come in" she asked what made me come in " a friend of mine told me to come in here and meet you, he said you were cute and he is rite" we hit it off and things are going grate so far. just remember the worst they can say is no. have confidence but don't be cocky.
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wow, LMAO! 
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..but oh well. Girls @ the mall aint really my type anyways...girls @ bars really arent my type...the only girls I see on the golf course are in HS still...if I wasnt 21 I probably would say something to them, or go play w/ them one day...but that age thing bothers me...its just weird IMO. Don't know why maybe I should just stfu and stop thinking so damn much.
ages 18-21. ****in insane. One of em is engaged to a 28 year old world of warcraft dork. 
( It's gona pay me back tenfold when shes done, Its like investing,lol) 
