So lets just say that the horses are starting to climb and the wheels are having a hard time gripping the road on a jump (I'm already launching at like 1600); what else should you do to your suspension besides bigger tires and rear control arms?

Many things affect low traction or wheel hop...

Control arms, bushings (soft rubber oem bushings), panhard bar, tires, shocks, springs etc.

I would recommend starting with the rear end, getting rid of the stock lower arms and upper 3rd link... as well as a panhard bar change...